Saturday, 19 April 2014

Failure Is The Ultimate Success

Failure is the ultimate success.

Strange .

I think that failure makes us stronger , I've failed ,so many times you wouldn't believe .

Failure on so many levels.

Whilst not to dwell on failure , it's made me better.

Blogging wise yes I've upset the apple cart but I've come through it you are not going to see eye to eye with all and you can't make folk like you.

Shyness I don't think I'll ever get over my social shyness or awkwardness like not moving to go to toilet till the cinema lights go down.

To those who say but you seem so confidant,  I think my shyness is my ally it  is like the angel and devil sitting in your shoulder ,it is and and always will be a conflict of emotion.

 "When niggling things in life all of a sudden make sense  , it reall does make you make you remember what life is really all about . *lightbulb moment* this quote is from Alice Hassell 

So will you Stand By Me ?

Through thick and thin.

Fight the fight.

Or not as failure is my ultimate success.


  1. well said, live and learn, and yes I truly believe you learn more from something you fail at that success

  2. As long as you are happy now that's what's important. I always think that the mistakes I've made have made me the person that I am today x

  3. Like Thomas Edison once said: "I have not failed. I've just found 10000 ways that won't work." Failure is all about learning from your mistakes and it will hopefully lead to success

  4. well written... we really do learn through our failures xx

  5. I think it's good to see things not as failures too...I always think that it's the things that don't go as planned that make us able to focus on where we want things to be going and to refocus.

  6. I agree with you. "failure makes you stronger". I've failed at many things.

    1. And I wouldn't have met such great folk as yourself ! x

  7. I agree with you 100%! I've failed so many times but it made me a stronger person, often people say that I'm very strong headed and confident which isn't true at all! I'm so shy that I would probably do the same "go to toilet when the cinema lights went off" ;)

  8. Always take the good from the bad I say! Better to fail than to not even try.

  9. I am a great believer in learning from your own failings. When things seem to go wrong, you quite often never repeat the same mistake.

  10. Everything you do - succeed or fail contributes to the person you are today. Well written x

  11. i guess it depends what kind of failure, ive noticed i do the same mistakes over and over

  12. We all learn from our failures - without them, we will never learn! x

  13. For me, the only real failure in life is not trying.
    Life is all about learning - we never stop learning.
    Failure isn't the end. It isn't final. It just means that we're not there yet.
    I think you are a lovely person. We're a bit alike...I laughed out loud at the toilet in the cinema bit because that's totally me! You're creative and expressive. You are one of my favourite bloggers and twitterers.
    No matter what you do, you can't please them all. So be true to yourself.
    With you all the way m'dear. :) x

  14. If we didn't fail, we wouldn't get better I suppose x x

  15. You can't have failed if you acknowledge what you think are our failures and make effort to correct them.

  16. One of those inspirational quotes to hold as motto. Life is easier when you look at failure as opportunity, for sure!

  17. I agree with Sonya that it's better to try and fail than to never know.

  18. Hello
    Your quote is so right.
    I had a tough time recently and broke down emotionally - however now i realise it was just what i needed to make me see how strong i actually am!
    You do seem very confident but the people interacting with your words on a regular basis are also interacting with a friend! xx Model Mummy xx ps love to the cats!

  19. Lovely post and so very true

  20. Failure definitely has its purpose, and I think failures normally happen for a reason so we can learn something - so in that way its not really a failure just a step on our journey

  21. I totally agree, without failure we wouldn't appreciate success or learn. everything has it's place, whats more important is how you deal with failure. x

  22. So very true, it does;t matter how much advice we are given you have to learn from your mistakes


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