Tuesday, 4 November 2014

Despite all

Despite all.

Being faced with husband and possible redundancy , life ticks , life ticks in very an unfair way. This is news, I have just heard not what I want to hear not what I need to hear but hear it I have. This is not the first time it has happened and it won't be the last time.

I am buoyant but it is a false buoyancy what will be will be.

If I can earn extra pennies in the mean time then I will try my utmost.

You can imagine how I feel you can imagine how my husband feels.

Damn I knew I should have made the self saucing pudding yesterday , everyone needs cake when they are down.

And I am just on the recovery from depression so I am hoping it won't spiral round back to me and also I am hoping my husband won't suffer.

Worse still it is my sons GCSE year , Christmas is coming up.

Life sucks.

Life can be good and the dust will settle and for no I am just little sad for my family.

Despite all.

I can still manage a smile for you all.


  1. Oh hun I could tell you you have each other and it will be fine blah blah blah, but we all know when life is tough it is pretty much pants! You know where I am if you ever want to scream, shout, cry, be manic or do nowt xxx

  2. Redundancy is a worry - we've been there - but from it things can happen. New experiences, new challenges.... I find screaming from a high hill good.

  3. Hugs.
    We went through this this year, the contract hubby was working on wasn't renewed and that was it - job one day nothing the next.

    It's tough but smiling through, looking forward and good friends are the way to go.

  4. I'm very sorry to hear that. We have been through this before and it is rubbish. But things DO get better. Good luck finding something else.x

  5. Fingers crossed for you. The threat of redundancy is awful, its the uncertainty that is so unsettling.

  6. I am going through this too sweetie, so a big hun from me to you xx

  7. Redundancy is horrible. But remember it is only money. Christmas is about family not presents. I hope it doesn't come to all that. We have been there, my husband's company went into liquidation. But there is always light at the other side. Here if you want to talk x

  8. Sorry you're having to worry over this Claire x x x

  9. Oh hun - big hugs for you - I can't offer more than that from here :( What a crap load you've been dealt right now xx

  10. That sucks, it has happened to us twice in two years and we are still struggling to get back on our feet. I am a firm believer it means something is better around the corner though xx


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