How would you know you are brilliant if no one told you ?
Being told you are good at something goes such a long way to improving your self confidence and self worth and you feel part of life. you don't feel that you are peeking in on things. We tell our children all the time that they are brilliant * mostly but the lift that you both get from it is amazing. Being told you are brilliant is a simple kindness that does back itself forward in turn you will tell someone that that brilliant .
The thing that we mustn't do is let self doubt creep in ie put ourselves down .
Beating myself us is what I'm trying to do less of.
I'll let you know how that is going just as long as the cat doesn't run off with my knitting ...